The Trap of Trying to Control your Destiny
We all want to be in control, to know what’s coming down the pipe, to have certainty.
We want to be the master of our destiny. But life’s not like that.
And it can be crazy-making to try to hold…
8 Signs your Motivation is Unhealthy
In the article Is your Motivation Hurting you? I shared two important types of motivation that are inconsistent, stressful and unhealthy, and the ideal balance of motivational drivers to have to accomplish your goals in a healthy, consistent and sustainable way.
This…
How to Know if your Stuck
How do you know if you’re stuck? In our hyper-active, multi-tasking society, it can be difficult to find an accurate barometer for ‘stuck’. What could be considered a slower pace today, might have been overdrive a generation ago.
First let’s…
Extreme Self-Care for the Holidays
How to get your needs met so you can enjoy every moment
Dear Brave One,
You deserve to be relaxed, rested and fulfilled during the holidays, and it demands extreme self-care.
Who’s job is it to get your needs met?…
How to Strategize your Life for the New Year
It’s already December and it sure did sneak up on us quickly! Within days, we’ll be into the holiday hustle, layering in more socializing, more shopping and more preparations into our already overloaded schedule. But life continues after the holidays!…
Life… What’s the Point?
I’ve been fascinated with the mysteries of life for quite some time, and I’ve heard many theories about the question, “What’s the point of life?” Some people never give this question much thought – they live their lives, happily unaware…
How to Get Un-Stuck and Create Momentum
It’s inevitable, really. At some point everyone experiences being stuck. It may be that you’re unable to move forward on your dream, or are stuck on a particular project, or you might be totally stuck in life. Whatever the stuck-ness is…
My life is awesome… why am I not happy?
If you’re reading this line, then something struck a chord with that headline. Why aren’t you happy? There’s something amiss, and only the deepest part of you knows what it is.
You’re living an amazing life. Career, family, home, social,…
Why Do You Want Money?
Why do you want money?!? Sounds like a silly question, right? Like, duh! I want money because…
How did that sentence end for you? What was your first thought? To be happy? To relax? To buy X? To do Y?…
Which Fears are in Your Way?
In Part 1, the first blog in this series, I shared with you two ways to know if you are getting in our own way – one is recurring problems that are actually patterns for you, and the other is…